Monday, October 26, 2009

Bid'ah dalam perkahwinan orang melayu


I'm not going to say much on this topic because i well let Dato Ustaz Ismail Kamus quickly brief you through all the Bid'ah activities that has been going on for centuries, especially in our country. You will find this lecture hard to believe but knowing that Dato Ismail Kamus is one of the leading one of the most well known malay Ustaz that we look up to and listen to, i'm sure whatever finding he has found as a result of his lecture, are all coming from Katib-kitab yang sahih and valid belaka.

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  1. Assalam walakum,

    This blog is a very nice blog, I have found it very beneficial to know more about Islam. Thanks for sharing the information.

  2. Dear Muslimin Muslimat..


    I had recently read buku Fatwa Mufti Kerajaan (1994-5 edition) and there are also information about Perkahwinan dari segi hukum Syara'.



  3. Wa'alaykumsalam,

    Masha Allah Alhamdulillah my brother/sister. I do not have a copy of this particular book but insya Allah will try to get one soon. Wow i did not know that Mufti has actually talked about this. You said its from Page 89-119 right? that's a lot of page to cover just about this adat perkahwinan.

    I can verify that as i can see there's one topic within Senarai Fatwa 1995 from Mufti's website with the title:

    "Siri 2/1995: Masalah perkahwinan, adat bersanding dan lain-lain yang berkaitan dengannya."

    Jazakallah. Hidayah comes in many form Masha Allah. Thank you very much. Probably you can share a little bit what was covered within this 30 pages.

    Hamba Allah

  4. Wa Jazakallhu khairan.

    Let me first mention several discussion issues under this particular topic:

    Istiadat bersanding
    Garis pandu perkahwinan
    Bersanding yang diharamkan
    Menyalakan api lilin semasa mengarak pengantin
    Adat basuh kaki
    Muzik di majlis persandingan

    I'm sure the issue 'Majlis persandingan' is what we really want to know, is it Haram? or is it Harus?

    In the book, page 107, it says:

    " Bersanding itu hanyalah adat, dan bukan daripada budaya Islam, tetapi jika hendak dibuat juga, maka bersanding dengan menutup aurat dan memakai perhiasan yang tidak dilarang oleh Islam dan tidak dipertontonkan kepada orang-orang asing yang bukan mahramnya dengan cara dan corak yang tidak berlawanan dengan akhlak, sopan santun dalam Islam. "

    There are several reasons 'Upacara bersanding' diharamkan. In the book, it says:

    " Di antara sebab-sebab persandingan itu tertegah kerana perempuan mendedahkan auratnya, ditontonkan secara terbuka kepada orang-orang bukan mahram, sementara lelaki memakai pakaian dan perhiasan yang tidak selaras dengan kehendak syara' "

    I hope we are all in His bless Amin..



Daily Hadith - Supplicating for Deceased

It was narrated that Abu Hurairah said: "When An-Najashi died, the Prophet (sal Allahu alaihi wa sallam) said, 'Pray for forgiveness for him.'" [Jami At-Tirmidhi - sahih hadith]

We learn here that on being informed about someone's death with the utterance of "we belong to Allah/ inna lillah", one should also supplicate for his/her forgiveness, so that Allah (subhana wa ta'ala) may forgive us as well.